Are Some Children Destined to be Disabled?

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26 Jan 2007 08:55 AM

For a few months now I've been pondering a big question. Since there are many minds and readers here at Families.com, I would love to tap into your differing religious viewpoints and personal philosophies in search of answers. My question is bigger than the earth and the cosmos. It's a question that cannot be answered with any scientific certainty. And from this one question, many others are born.

So here it is: Are children with disabilities given these challenges for a divine purpose?

For example, are children with Down syndrome given this special condition by a wise and knowing creator, for a purpose we simply can't comprehend? Are disabilities given to individuals as a calling or mission from God? Is there divine purpose in developmental delays and physical handicaps? Or, is the special needs child merely the victim of the randomness, chaos, and unpredictability of our residence on this planet? Is the process of human construction, while in the mother's womb, so delicate and infinitely complicated that it is a statistical inevitability that some children will be physically or mentally imperfect? Are we deluding ourselves in thinking that our special sons and daughters may have an important purpose in their individual challenges?

If a divine creator knowingly selected our children to have disabilities or delays, why were some given so many, and others so few? What is the purpose of this inequitable distribution of abilities and disabilities? Why do some children seem to be endowed with health, intelligence, and popularity, and others are dealt the cruel realities of pain, confusion, and isolation?

I wrote an interview blog recently with the mother of a child with Down syndrome. In her interview, she said the following:

"These kids aren't angels, they aren't always lovable, they aren't put here on earth to serve a higher purpose - they are just people, with all the feelings, sorrow, happiness, love, aspirations of other people."

"Just people." Is it patronizing to envision these children as something more?

Phew. I suppose those are enough questions for one quiet January morning.

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Linda Hansen (1796) 26 Jan 2007 08:12 AM

Wow Kristyn. This is a deep subject. I really don't know if God is responsible for giving our children disabilities for a greater purpose, probably. I do believe He has his reasons and they are just way beyond our comprehension. I do think for everything there is a reason (except maybe for the lottery..I think that's random, lol) Artcraft

Kristyn Crow (2546) 26 Jan 2007 08:25 AM

I'm sure it's a question many parents contemplate. Even with faith in God, the question of destiny vs. random chance still exists. Perhaps God exposes us to the randomness of earth life. Or perhaps this is all carefully planned. I see so much that is noble and good in disability, that I have to wonder if it isn't indeed part of a purposeful, grand design. Thanks for your comment, Linda!

Yosemite (133) 26 Jan 2007 02:01 PM

I don't think disabilities are God's will. It all seems pretty random to me.